On the last day of Disability Pride Month, Iโm here to remind you, as a fantasy author with multiple disabilities, the idea that disabled people canโt be in fantasy is silly (and harmful).
Both main characters of my Lesbians, Pirates, & Dragons series have disabilities, as do some of their friends, parents, and mentors, and I personally think it would be less realistic, if they didnโt.
You may have noticed that I’ve been quiet for a few months. If you follow me on social media, you know there’s a reason for that.
The most I feel comfortable saying is that some awful things happened in my personal life this year that triggered PTSD from past abuse and multiple suicidal episodes.
And just as I was starting to feel like I was bouncing back, the awful thing happened again.
So, yeah, I definitely haven’t been in a great place emotionally this year, and it’s hard to be online when I’m barely here at all. But I’m trying to get back to a better place, despite it all.
It’s ironic that I missed Mental Health Awareness Month because of my mental health (and I feel like this isn’t even the first time it’s happened ๐ ). But this issue is very important to me, so I’d rather say something late than not at all.
If you’ve read my books, you know that representing mental illness honestlyโflaws and allโis something I’m passionate about. If we only care about mental health when the person or character is perfect and not when they make mistakes, then we don’t actually care about mental healthโbecause perfect people donโt exist.
I try to be honest about my own struggles with mental illness, just as I try to represent mental illness honestly in my booksโeven when it’s embarrassing, even when it’s scary, even when it makes me feel unbearably vulnerable, even when it hurts.
With as much as I’ve been unable to see this about myself, it’s important to me that you know you already deserve love, just as you are. ๐
You don’t have to be okay. You don’t have to pretend to be. You deserve love, regardless. ๐
April is Autism Acceptance Month, which means itโs time (almost past time) for my annual reminder that autistic people come in all shapes and sizesโincluding that of a dragon-riding surgeon. ๐ค๐๐ค
Emilia Drakon, the protagonist of my Lesbians, Pirates, & Dragons series, is autistic (like me), and though she deals with communication and sensory obstacles from time to time, no one aboard the Wicked Fate treats her like a burden because of itโbecause sheโs not one. ๐ค
Every year, I try to say a little about why lesbian visibility is so important to meโas a lesbian and as a lesbian author. Iโm not exactly in the state of mind that I like to be in when I talk about these things, but Iโm going to try, anyway. ๐งก
I spent much of my life believing I was brokenโbecause I didnโt have the right words or examples to make sense of what I felt and who I was. I spent most of my life hating myself for it. Even saying the word โlesbianโ was a battle for me.
But I made it through that, and now, Iโm passionate about writing the kind of stories I needed back then.
Representation saves lives, and as long as Iโm able to write more weapon-wielding lesbians into the world, I will. ๐งก
โค๏ธ Autistic Main Character ๐งก Tattooed Main Character ๐ Character with a Disability ๐ Takes Place on a Ship or Boat ๐ Established Couple Hidden Gems: ๐ Pirates ๐ค Unusual Pet(s)
โค๏ธ Autistic Main Character ๐งก Tattooed Main Character ๐ Character with a Disability ๐ Takes Place on a Ship or Boat ๐ Character is Hiding a Secret Hidden Gems: ๐ Pirates ๐ค Unusual Pet(s)
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I was having a bit of a scary flare-up at the time, and my mind wasnโt at its clearest. So, I might have dropped more hints about The Dragon Child than intended. If you enjoy those, youโreโฆwelcome, I guess? ๐
Click the link below, if youโre interested! ๐
Iโve been having a pretty rough time lately, but during that time, Goddess of the Sea (Lesbians, Pirates, & Dragons: Book 2) reached a happy, little milestone! ๐ It now has over five hundred reviews and ratings on Amazon! (And almost two hundred on Audible!)
I know Iโve said this a few times now, but Iโve never been more terrified to release a book than I was with this one. (And if youโve known me for long, you know thatโs saying something. ๐ ) This book was so vulnerable and so personal. Every positive reaction has meant the world to me. ๐
I couldnโt be more grateful that you were receptive to what I was trying to do with Em and Maria. Thank you. ๐
If youโve read the book, you know this is a particularly significant scene for Em and Maria, so I thought Iโd say a few words about it.
One of the hardest things about PTSD, in my opinion, is the way so many of the symptoms leave you feeling powerless. Powerless over your body, over your mind, over the past, andโฆduring a nightmare or flashback, powerless over the present, as well. Especially when the trauma came while under the power of someone else, that feeling of powerlessness isโฆdifficult. So, to say this scene is a personal one (that made me cry many, many, many times) would be an understatement.
It was also a huge step for Em and Maria, and I deeply love what it does for their progress. ๐
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